Disgusted

Recently Jessica and I went out to have "Fish and Chips" at a local restaurant. Prior to moving to Las Vegas I had only heard of Fish and Chips one another time. Is the meal really Fish and Chips or Fish and French Fries? I do not go to In and Out and ask for a burger and chips. Chips are Doritos or Tortilla chips for chips and salsa. 

We ordered our "Fish and Chips" and had an amazing evening of gluttony or misery or disgust. I am not sure what the calorie intake is or how many fat grams there is in one fried fish, but we can all agree that there is a disgusting amount of grease one eats in a delightful meal of "Fish and Chips." 

Have you ever been disgusted by your partner? Disgust could be their sarcasm, avoidance, anger, nagging, or a list of other disgusting things we may do in marriage. John Gottman says, "It's virtually impossible to resolve a problem when your partner is getting the message you're disgusted with him or her." What do you do intentional or unintentional that disgust your partner? If you are not sure, ask. Then move forward to remove the disgust from the relationship. 

I do not eat "Fish and Chips" very often because it is not healthy and can be disgusting when indulged. In the same way we have to cut out the unhealthy habits of disgust in our marriage to build a lasting friendship.